![]() ![]() Fear of losing your partner was part of what made the relationship exciting. However, security has a deadening effect on desire. You don’t have to worry about if your partner loves you or if your relationship might crash and burn at any moment. The author discusses three specific sets of conflicting values:Ĭommitment, and the security it brings, is a wonderful thing in a long-term relationship. The balance often lies in looking at your partner in a new context. The values of long term relationships-commitment, intimacy, and egalitarianism-are at odds with some of the fundamental ingredients for desire-risk, distance, and power imbalances. ![]() There are two types of tensions that make it hard to maintain desire in committed relationships: inherent tensions between the values of domesticity and desire, and external tensions between a couple and the rest of the world. ![]()
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